March 1

A Doll’s House – opinion on Nora Helmer

From Act 1 in A Doll’s House, we can deduce that Nora Helmer is a very child-like character. Her relationship with her husband, Torvald and her children portray these characteristics. For example, after Ms Linde and Dr Rank leave their home and the children come back, Nora’s whole mood changes. She is no longer being secretive and all her attention is with her children. Everything they say, she listens carefully and with excitement. Even some of the activities that could have been slightly dangerous for them are dismissed by Nora’s curiosity. Since she herself can be considered a child, it seems logical that she is focused on the adventurous side of her children’s stories rather than worrying like a mother-figure would. Furthermore, when Nora holds the baby just before she is to be put to bed, she almost refuses to give her back to the nurse. This suggests stubbornness and selfishness in the sense that she wants to keep the baby to herself as if it was her possession, her doll. When looking at the adaptation of this scene, it is noticed that her possessive actions towards the baby are not intimidating as Torvald’s need for control, but rather playful as Nora does not like the idea of sharing what is hers; a characteristic often seen in a child. Also the fact that she’s running around, screaming and laughing portrays strong childlike characteristics, as her actions exactly match those of the children. This is heightened when surrounded by her children, as she is then in a familiar environment; an environment where she has the freedom to act in this manner without society’s and Torvald’s expectations overwhelming her.

Nora Helmer is also very easily distracted and seems to use these distractions to sway away from uncomfortable situations or negative thoughts. An example is her decorating and chattering at the end of Act 1. Here she uses the Christmas tree as an excuse to busy herself so that she isn’t forced to face what she has done. In the scene, Torvald is confronting her about seeing Krogstad leave the house and instead of facing her husband, Nora hides behind her decorations. She isn’t confident enough to take responsibility for her actions (a trait also seen in her discussion with Krogstad about the forged signature) or to face whatever consequence or judgement she might receive for it. In this case it is simply the fact that she lied about Krogstad. However when looking at Nora’s character throughout the whole of Act 1, it is noticeable that Nora is quick to jump from conversation to conversation and her lack of focus often helps her dismiss unpleasant situations. The specific example of the decorating and chattering at the end of Act 1 also suggests she is very occupied with the appearance of their home; she feels obliged to uphold the ‘perfect’ family image.

 

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March 1

Torvald’s Sympathy Scale: “Oh Hell Nah!”

Before watching the 3rd act I had a very negative perspective towards Torvald. I viewed him as a self-centered, egotistic, dominant figure that is more reliant on his SuperEgo as he lets it govern his decision-making skills and characteristic choices. However, this is approached differently when understanding the method to his madness and realizing that what he does is just for show. After watching the beginning portion of Act 3, I understand his point of view but that still doesn’t give him the right to treat Nora in that way.  Throughout this act contrary to the whole book, we see Nora for a split second as the dominating one in their relationship and their conversations. Torvald seems quite needy and clingy in this part as he is constantly seeking affirmation and gratification from Nora. Him being drunk makes him lose that sense of SuperEgo and refer back to his unconscious ID which represents his true wants and needs. Torvald seems much more affectionate towards Nora in this part as he loses his sense of awareness and his care for what society may think. Although he is more affectionate he still attempts to dominate her as he attempts marital rape. During the Victorian Era, this was unheard of as it was not thought of as rape but as the man’s right.

Nora: “Go away Torvald! You must let me go. I won’t–“

 

Helmer: “What’s that? You’re joking, my little Nora! You won’t –you won’t? Am I not your husband–?”

 

In this quote, we can easily determine the fraction of consciousness that Torvald has while forcing himself on her and attempting to rape her even when she clearly said no. We can rationalize that due to his intoxication or that he doesn’t know that what he is doing is wrong, nevertheless, his actions make it harder to sympathize. Additionally, the usage of the word MUST which is a model verb shows that she is attempting to dominate him but is failing miserably as she is helpless in this situation. On the other hand, I sympathize with him because he doesn’t know how conniving and manipulative his wife is and the lies that she weaves constantly. But that’s not enough for me to completely understand and excuse his behavior towards Nora in front of society. this split-personality of Helmer when dealing with Nora is understandably quite aggravating as she wouldn’t know which Torvald she is dealing with during each moment. Overall, on the sympathy scale, I think I am around a 2 because I feel some sympathy towards Torvald but his action makes it very difficult to sympathize further.

 

March 1

The Torvald Sympathy Scale

At this point of the play I actually feel quite sympathetic for Torvald. Throughout the play we have seen him be very possessive of Nora, and even treat her like a child a lot of the times. He regularly calls her “my little skylark”, and other similar demeaning names. This has caused me at first to believe he is just a bad person however in Act 3 after the party we can see his true personality, and character. He is drunk and so his true character is shown. Here he is shown as more childlike, and as a nicer character, which makes me feel a bit more sympathetic to Torvald as his true feelings are shown when he talks to Nora alone. On a scale of 1-10 however, my sympathy towards Torvald is 4/10. Although he can be seen as a victim of society, he still does show qualities of a bad character, and does have multiple bad characteristics that transcend just being part of a specific society.

 

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March 1

Torvald Sympathy Scale: Where do you lie?

My opinion on Torvald at this stage of this play is that I greatly dislike him. This is because of his actions towards his wife and others have not been appropriate or kind.

Even considering the time, I feel that he sometimes justified what he did by the idea that it was socially ok, even though somethings he did were not ok. He may be a victim of society but he the way he acts in his home is how he chooses as no one else can see how he acts, in his home he can choose how he acts, free of any pressure.

 

Things that Torval does that make him a controversial or villain:

  • He treats Nora as a lesser being even though they are married and should be in a relationship where she is not an item that he owns.
    • “My lark” (act one)
    • “My little spendthrift” (act one)
  • He also tries to rape Nora, this kind of action is not acceptable in any way or situation.
  • He talks badly about Ms linde behind her back
    • ” at last we’ve got rid of her; she’s an awful bore” (act three)
  • He does not give Krogstad a job because of personal history and dislike for him
    • ” It gives me a positive sense of physical discomfort to come in contact with such people” (act one)

 

March 1

I Have No Sympathy For You, Torvald Helmer.

Post on the class blog regarding  the level of sympathy you have for Torvald at this stage of the play (taking into consideration Victorian expectations of him)

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Torvald Helmer is a complex character with many different sides and personalities. Through looking at his character, it is evident that he is strongly influenced by societal standards, which can be seen in the way he treats Nora. Despite this, Helmer is a character that I strongly despise, and I do not have any sympathy for him.

The way that Torvald Helmer treats his wife closely follows normal behavior in the Victorian era. Masculinity refers to a man’s traditional self and manners- their habits, and attitudes which follow the patriarchal system in society. In the Victorian era, this meant that the man had to have a strong sense of self-control, and independence, which was influenced by factors like domesticity and gender roles. The man had to be the head of the house and the one who is superior to the wife. Therefore, Helmer establishes himself as the dominant figure by making Nora seem smaller. He speaks to her in a degrading way, using possessive pronouns such as ‘my’ and ‘mine’. Additionally, the nicknames he has for Nora, such as ‘skylark’, ‘squirrel’, and ‘little lark’ are all in reference to small animals that are usually not associated with strength or power. Helmer ensures that Nora knows that she is lesser, sometimes calling her an ‘odd little thing’ and a ‘silly little girl’. These names may seem playful and teasing, however, they could have deeper contexts than it first seems, similar to a backhanded compliment.

Secondly, one of the main reasons that made me lose nearly all my sympathy for Torvald, was the way that he treated Nora when he was drunk.

Helmer: When I watched the seductive figures of the Tarantella, my blood was on fire; I could endure it no longer, and that was why I brought you down so early-

Nora: Go away Torvald! You must let me go. I won’t-

Helmer: What’s that? You’re joking my little Nora! You won’t- you won’t? Am I not your husband-?

Nora is very clearly uncomfortable and does not want Torvald to touch her. Earlier to this dialogue, the stage directions indicate that Nora is trying to make space between them. For example, [she moves to the other side of the table], while Helmer continues to persist and tries to get closer to her [follows her]. The fact that, despite being her husband and is supposed to be the one protecting her, Torvald doesn’t respect her wishes and puts Nora in a very uncomfortable situation. Had Rank not intervened, Torvald could have forced himself onto Nora, which is most definitely not okay.

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March 1

How dare thou, Torvald Helmer?

I was very skeptic of Torvald’s role in “A Doll’s House” and, much like the rest of my peers, regarded him as controlling and nothing close to an innocent. The reading of Act 3 has only further grounded my opinions. I found myself feeling some sort of empathy towards Torvald in this act as a cause to his interaction with Ms. Linde, when he was unforgivably drunk. It can be said that ones ID shines through when they are drunk, as they have no control over their actions and any reliance on EGO and SUPEREGO becomes non-existent. And thus, when Torvalds goes on about how Ms. Linde “ought to embroider” (Ibsen, 54), going into intricate detail on how she should “hold the embroidery thus in your left hand… with a long, easy sweep” (Ibsen, 54), it is hard not to have pity on the man. With such sensitive knowledge of a stereotypical feminine task, and this knowledge belonging to a man, it is easy to imagine Torvald as being nothing more than a man suppressed by his SUPEREGO. This, of course, coming about from the strict and constricting ideology imposed by Victorian society, in which existed specific roles for each gender. I feel this gravitation towards the feminine may be an ode to Torvald’s own teachings as a child, in which his mother steered his attention towards usually feminine tasks. It was Victorian society that forced this interest into his ID, which he shows off when drunk.

This empathy towards the “misunderstood” husband would have lasted, were it not for Torvald’s attempted rape on Nora. I would classify this act as “attempted rape” due to Nora’s dissent, which includes lines such as “Go away, Torvald! You must let me go. I won’t-” (Ibsen, 55) when Torvald attempts to assert himself onto her. As we are speaking of ID, this act can easily be seen as his inner longings urging him to commit such a heinous crime. However, society may play a big part in this again, thus making Victorian society, and not Torvald, the true villain. It was the norm at the time for a wife to serve her husband almost as an object and offer her body whether she was willing or not. This is further reinforced by Torvald’s comments after the fact: “What’s that?… you won’t? Am I not your husband?” (Ibsen, 55). This act, whether under the influence of alcohol or not, is truly appalling and, quite frankly, should be seen as disgusting to any 21st century viewer today. Women are not objects and will not be treated as such.

February 6

Torvald Sympathy Scale

From the scale of 10, I think my sympathy towards Torvald is confusing making me in the middle being a 3. Torvald is not consistent in his behavior towards Nora making it very difficult to interpret his true self. According, to the Victorian expectations of showing vast amount of pride, protectiveness and superior over women, Torvald very much fulfills this as in Act (2.113) Torvald as he says “Do you suppose I am going to make myself ridiculous before my whole staff, to let people think that I am a man to be swayed by all sorts of outside influence?” referring to his wife as he is afraid to seem weak in public by listening to his wife. On the other hand, Nora encourages it by saying things like “Your squirrel would run about and do all her tricks if you would be nice, and do what she wants” (2.92). Therefore, It is very difficult to sympathize with Torvald completely or the other way around.

 

February 6

Act 1: First Impressions of Nora Helmer

Nora is introduced during the play as a selfish, irrational character that often acts impulsively and in a childish manner. Throughout the play, we are slowly introduced to Nora as a very 3-D, dimensional, round character that is more than the childish front that she puts up. This is often represented clearly through the different situations she faces and the way that she uses her wit to achieve what she wants. In that way, we can easily observe and understand the stereotypical front that she puts on, and appreciate the raw reality and relatability of this character as she is approached and portrayed in a more realistic point of view. This is relatable today as people tend to put and follow unrealistic fronts and conform to them to be accepted by society and liked by the ‘in-group’. My first impression of Nora Helmer was that she was quite an ‘airhead’ and didn’t think through before saying or doing things. I think also that because of this attribute she tends to find herself in sticky situations that she has no experience in dealing with.  At the beginning, I found that her submissiveness and naivety quite tedious as was easily influenced by everyone around her and didn’t acknowledge her unhealthy relationship with her husband and his continuous manipulation to gain anything he wants from her. As the act progressed, I realized that that was in fact not the case as she was quite aware and manipulative herself nonetheless, in a more subtle and cunning way. This behavior though is understandable because she went from her father being the leading manipulative, idolized male figure to her husband. So she hasn’t really had the time to explore her own personality and have time to herself to understand herself, her goals, and ambitions before diving into a relationship. This leads to her being co-dependent on the men in her life and always acting like a child or a damsel in distress around them.

~Her husband’s nicknames for her:

Throughout the act, Nora Helmer’s husband Torvald uses several nicknames or pet names for her to call on her or just display his ‘affection’. Torvald uses odd nicknames such as; my little skylark, my little sparrow, spendthrift, my little squirrel, little lark, and miss sweet tooth. Most of these nicknames contain a common aspect of birds that are considered a bizarre thing to call your significant other. The usage of birds is used in the text to symbolize Nora as a person in captivity or a ‘pet’ towards Torvald. Additionally, the usage of the possessive pronoun of “MY” shows Torvald’s possessiveness towards her and that he treats her more as a possession than a human with feelings. The usage of birds is also quite demeaning from Torvald’s end as it is an animal and often animals aren’t viewed as an equal to a human. Although Torvald might be doing it unconsciously all the time he instills a mindset in her to show that she will always need him. This is seen through these nicknames as usually, animals need to be fed and have things done for them as they require responsibility. This manipulation from Torvald towards Nora is quite significant as it leads Nora to conform to his choices and follow his irrational decisions even if she doesn’t agree with them simply just because she is blinded by the manipulation. Torvald also tends to do this a lot to stroke his own ego and to display his consistent arrogance, dominance, and superiority.

~Her use of Helmer’s first name (taboo at the time in Norway)

Nora notably refers to her husband, Torvald, by his first name throughout the play which was considered to be taboo at that time period in Norway. That is due to the fact, that women were considered to be more of a lesser being and were expected to follow a stereotypical protocol at home which didn’t include using first names and equating the husband and wife. Women were usually expected to address them in praising and in a more superior manner so that there is a difference in hierarchy and status when interacting with the different sexes. Firstly, Nora and Torvald usually exchange first names when they are in a serious situation that they are discussing and when Nora in particularly really wants something that is important to her. Furthermore, Nora also uses Torvald’s first name when she is quite flustered or anxious about something which usually changes the tone of the conversation to a more serious tone. Nora perhaps also uses his first name consciously to show him at times that she is a grown woman and not a child and shouldn’t be treated in that manner. This also shows that she is aware of his treatments and has some ideas and thoughts of her own that simply do not line up with his ideologies. Personally, I believe that Nora also does that to establish a sense of equality between the couple and to show Helmer that she is just the same as he is. This sense of subtle manipulations and sense of standing up for herself works when she is trying to set her ground but, Helmer usually counteracts that by not taking her seriously, calling her ridiculous nicknames, and trying to distract her with different tactics.

~Her fondness for “contraband” macaroons :

At the beginning, I believed that Nora choosing to eat macaroons even though they were a luxury that they can’t afford, was absurd, as they are undergoing a financial crisis. However, as the play goes on I realize that eating the macaroons wasn’t only based on her love and appreciation of the sweet but it was in fact just to spite Torvald. Nora liking the sweet is part of the reason behind why she is eating it, yet, displeasing Helmer and going against what he said was more of the motive behind her insensible actions. Her stubbornness stems from the reasoning that she wants a fraction of that feeling of superiority that Helmer obtains, and also to show Helmer that she is quite capable of breaking his rules and going against what he says. This helps the reader interpret that she doesn’t have much respect for her husband, as well as her following him and his rules, are notably due to instilled fear from within her and NOT respect. Furthermore, her going behind her husband’s back also shows that she is quite comfortable lying to her husband and hiding things away from him even if they are as harmless as macaroons. I believe that she is doing this as a form of stubbornness by breaking Torvald’s rules and rebellion to try and prove herself as a strong character.

January 24

First impressions of Nora Helmer

Nora Helmer

The first main female character we are introduced to in a Dolls House is Nora Helmer. She is the wife of Torvald Hemler and the main focus of the play.

Two main things that contribute to the character of Nora at the beginning of the play in act one are the nicknames her husband gives her and her fondness for “contraband” macaroons.

 

The nicknames that Helmer gives Nora are spindthreft, little skylark, little lark, little squirrel, miss sweeth tooth. Each showing that she is his possesion and something that he loves and looks after. They also revel that  Nora is looked down on by her husband as these names are all very little things or something you would say to a child. When Hemer uses them he is using them (most of the time) in either a Interrogative sentence or as a Possessive pronoun as they are often paired with my.

Nora also eats macaroons and then hides them from her husband. This interaction can be seen in the folwoing dialogue:

Hemler Hasn’t Miss Sweet Tooth been breaking rules in town today?
Nora No; what makes you think that?
Helmer Hasn’t she paid a visit to the confectioner’s?
Nora No, I assure you, Torvald.
act one, pg 7

This signifies that she is happy to keep secreats from her husband. Even though she has only has eatern a macaroon, she has still gone aganst what he wants for her. Suggesting two things, the first Nora is independent enough to make her own decisions and is not bound by her husband. The second is that she is not scaed of her husband and what he will do.

All of this shows that there are two sides to Nora. One is the loveling wife who is loved by her husband and put down (not conserred an equal).  The other side is a women that will go against her husband and do what she wants without care for the consequenses. She is very two faced from this degree, even if what she does if for the best intentions there is always a bit of sly dishonest side to her. So, from the first act we learn that Nora is not just what you see at the surface, there is a deeper and somewhat darker side to her.

 

 

 

January 24

Opinion on Act 1

Her husband’s nickname for her

In the first act of a ‘dolls house’ it is present that when the husband of Nora is talking with her he uses pet names. Helmer using words as a sign of endearment on the surface however has more disregarding her as an equal in their relation. Birds are a prominent scene throughout Helmers pet names as he describes her as a ‘sparrow’. This is significate as it shows that she is trapped and only used not from her personality or intelligence but is something visually appealing to the owner; the owner being Helmer. Another significant point is that bird is normally free spirted and should not be left in a cage; which Nora is doing being stuck in the house. The house is significate for the metaphor as it her cage that she feels as if she needs to perform instead of just living. Nora feels as

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if it is her obligation to attend the family correctly and sufficiently to the society standards such as a clean house, a well-organized house and as well and very visually appealing presentation of house and self. Helmer use of the word mine; is shown as if he owns her and is the dominate figure in the relationship. He has authority over her and uses this to show his ownership to her and the audience. Nora believe that these nicknames are endearing however is a backhanded complimented that seems innocent on the surface however is very negative. This shows that the characters has a lack of inner respect; by inner I mean that both character are nice to each other however he does not really understand her and therefore deceit his trust in small gesture and foreshadowing what will occur the future.

Decorating the Christmas tree

The Christmas tree presents a lot for the way a family is perceived to either peers. The push to become the perfect family with the perfect family life that has a lot of money and love in the family. Therefore, when Nora is decorating the tree she is trying to put up a front, so no person will suspect her. Artificial beauty as the reader has established that she is more complex than a standard character this is present at the end of act 1. There her wanting to distract herself from her conflict as a character is very present through act 1. She is also very anxious when Helmer arrives into the scene and begins to mess around and to take her mind off the subject that she does not want to fell.

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