February 6

Torvald Sympathy Scale

From the scale of 10, I think my sympathy towards Torvald is confusing making me in the middle being a 3. Torvald is not consistent in his behavior towards Nora making it very difficult to interpret his true self. According, to the Victorian expectations of showing vast amount of pride, protectiveness and superior over women, Torvald very much fulfills this as in Act (2.113) Torvald as he says “Do you suppose I am going to make myself ridiculous before my whole staff, to let people think that I am a man to be swayed by all sorts of outside influence?” referring to his wife as he is afraid to seem weak in public by listening to his wife. On the other hand, Nora encourages it by saying things like “Your squirrel would run about and do all her tricks if you would be nice, and do what she wants” (2.92). Therefore, It is very difficult to sympathize with Torvald completely or the other way around.

 

February 6

Act 1: First Impressions of Nora Helmer

Nora is introduced during the play as a selfish, irrational character that often acts impulsively and in a childish manner. Throughout the play, we are slowly introduced to Nora as a very 3-D, dimensional, round character that is more than the childish front that she puts up. This is often represented clearly through the different situations she faces and the way that she uses her wit to achieve what she wants. In that way, we can easily observe and understand the stereotypical front that she puts on, and appreciate the raw reality and relatability of this character as she is approached and portrayed in a more realistic point of view. This is relatable today as people tend to put and follow unrealistic fronts and conform to them to be accepted by society and liked by the ‘in-group’. My first impression of Nora Helmer was that she was quite an ‘airhead’ and didn’t think through before saying or doing things. I think also that because of this attribute she tends to find herself in sticky situations that she has no experience in dealing with.  At the beginning, I found that her submissiveness and naivety quite tedious as was easily influenced by everyone around her and didn’t acknowledge her unhealthy relationship with her husband and his continuous manipulation to gain anything he wants from her. As the act progressed, I realized that that was in fact not the case as she was quite aware and manipulative herself nonetheless, in a more subtle and cunning way. This behavior though is understandable because she went from her father being the leading manipulative, idolized male figure to her husband. So she hasn’t really had the time to explore her own personality and have time to herself to understand herself, her goals, and ambitions before diving into a relationship. This leads to her being co-dependent on the men in her life and always acting like a child or a damsel in distress around them.

~Her husband’s nicknames for her:

Throughout the act, Nora Helmer’s husband Torvald uses several nicknames or pet names for her to call on her or just display his ‘affection’. Torvald uses odd nicknames such as; my little skylark, my little sparrow, spendthrift, my little squirrel, little lark, and miss sweet tooth. Most of these nicknames contain a common aspect of birds that are considered a bizarre thing to call your significant other. The usage of birds is used in the text to symbolize Nora as a person in captivity or a ‘pet’ towards Torvald. Additionally, the usage of the possessive pronoun of “MY” shows Torvald’s possessiveness towards her and that he treats her more as a possession than a human with feelings. The usage of birds is also quite demeaning from Torvald’s end as it is an animal and often animals aren’t viewed as an equal to a human. Although Torvald might be doing it unconsciously all the time he instills a mindset in her to show that she will always need him. This is seen through these nicknames as usually, animals need to be fed and have things done for them as they require responsibility. This manipulation from Torvald towards Nora is quite significant as it leads Nora to conform to his choices and follow his irrational decisions even if she doesn’t agree with them simply just because she is blinded by the manipulation. Torvald also tends to do this a lot to stroke his own ego and to display his consistent arrogance, dominance, and superiority.

~Her use of Helmer’s first name (taboo at the time in Norway)

Nora notably refers to her husband, Torvald, by his first name throughout the play which was considered to be taboo at that time period in Norway. That is due to the fact, that women were considered to be more of a lesser being and were expected to follow a stereotypical protocol at home which didn’t include using first names and equating the husband and wife. Women were usually expected to address them in praising and in a more superior manner so that there is a difference in hierarchy and status when interacting with the different sexes. Firstly, Nora and Torvald usually exchange first names when they are in a serious situation that they are discussing and when Nora in particularly really wants something that is important to her. Furthermore, Nora also uses Torvald’s first name when she is quite flustered or anxious about something which usually changes the tone of the conversation to a more serious tone. Nora perhaps also uses his first name consciously to show him at times that she is a grown woman and not a child and shouldn’t be treated in that manner. This also shows that she is aware of his treatments and has some ideas and thoughts of her own that simply do not line up with his ideologies. Personally, I believe that Nora also does that to establish a sense of equality between the couple and to show Helmer that she is just the same as he is. This sense of subtle manipulations and sense of standing up for herself works when she is trying to set her ground but, Helmer usually counteracts that by not taking her seriously, calling her ridiculous nicknames, and trying to distract her with different tactics.

~Her fondness for “contraband” macaroons :

At the beginning, I believed that Nora choosing to eat macaroons even though they were a luxury that they can’t afford, was absurd, as they are undergoing a financial crisis. However, as the play goes on I realize that eating the macaroons wasn’t only based on her love and appreciation of the sweet but it was in fact just to spite Torvald. Nora liking the sweet is part of the reason behind why she is eating it, yet, displeasing Helmer and going against what he said was more of the motive behind her insensible actions. Her stubbornness stems from the reasoning that she wants a fraction of that feeling of superiority that Helmer obtains, and also to show Helmer that she is quite capable of breaking his rules and going against what he says. This helps the reader interpret that she doesn’t have much respect for her husband, as well as her following him and his rules, are notably due to instilled fear from within her and NOT respect. Furthermore, her going behind her husband’s back also shows that she is quite comfortable lying to her husband and hiding things away from him even if they are as harmless as macaroons. I believe that she is doing this as a form of stubbornness by breaking Torvald’s rules and rebellion to try and prove herself as a strong character.